Road Trips: The Highs and NO’S!! part 1

This years trip has been full of some great things and some not so great things.

We started out with a little hiccup. We made a pitstop that was in the opposite direction from where we really planned on travelling and turned it into a longer stop than we should have. We had to travel back close to home so we actually went home and started again the next day. Why pay for a place to sleep when we were so close to out own beds. Needless to say the kids were shocked to see us return.  So this was somewhere between a high and NO. It was fun to see the kids faces but I dont think it was one of our best thought out plans.

Ok, hiccup out of the way, we started our trip again on 7/9.

Travelling south down through California on I-5 we made it down to Santa Monica Pier. We parked a couple blocks away in a parking structure and to our surprise it was free to park for 4 hours since it was a week day. Free Parking….High! Keep this in mind when you go because we watched tourists sitting in their cars in the heat to park at the pier and pay too! It was bumper to bumper just to avoid a few blocks. That is a huge NO!

We jumped into our truck after a short walk around. I guess when you live so close to Pier 39 in San Francisco this is not that impressive. I am glad we went since it is the end of Route 66. The meant the beginning of our adventure this year.

Continuing south our next stop was….. yes Disneyland! My all time High of every road trip. Remember this is a no kids road trip so getting to leisurely wander around Mickey’s home is completely different. We have annual passes and that changes the atmosphere too. No rushing, no stress, no worrying about getting on every ride.

This Disneyland High was riding Pirates of the Caribbean. They just updated it changing the brides auction to make it more politically correct. The Redhead is now a pirate instead of being auctioned off. The  “rounder” lady is holding a chicken on the platform now and they are selling the chicken eggs. This part was a new NO in my opinion. The redhead is still the beautiful, strong woman but really, selling chicken eggs to the pirates. NO! They made up for it by changing the tunnel to the cannon fire entrance back to the way the ride used to be. Dead Men Tell No Tales. It made me smile. High!

The Next day we went into the part for just a bit and then started off to find Route 66. This is not an easy task since a lot of Route 66 has been destroyed and lost over the years. Finally getting on the historic route we traveled east towards Arizona.

To be continued

 

Do the things you have to do so you can do the things you want to do

Do the things you have to do so you can do the things you want to do. 

I think I heard this for the first time on a tv show when a father was teaching his son a lesson about school. I have repeated this line repeatedly to my boys.  

Last night hubby and I watched Disneys movie, “Up”. The story is important to my blog so stick with me please. If you haven’t seen “UP”, this post is a big huge spoiler. Stop now if you don’t want me to ruin it for you. 

“up” it a love story about a regular couple. No princess, no animals and no catchy songs. Carl and Ellie meet as kids, get married, lose a baby, never have another child, and are happy with the life they share. 

As their love grows they start a fund to live in Paradise Falls someday.  Everyday life keeps draining the money jar.A broken window, a flat tire, and a broken leg were just some of the unexpected events which delayed their trip. Just not enough money. 


Like most Disney movies, a big sad moment and lesson comes when as an older couple Ellie passes away with Carl at her side. Through his mourning and bitterness he remembers the Paradise Falls jar and decides to make their dream of going on the trip a reality. Nothing will stop him. Finally he decided above all else he would complete this trip for the love of his life.

How he does or doesn’t do it isn’t really important. It’s the point that after his wife, his anchor, the one he would put his life down for is gone. They didn’t find the time and now it’s too late to do it together.

As I write today I’m reading about an unexcusable, senseless shooting in Las Vegas. At this time it’s being reported that over 400 have been injured and 50 killed. The numbers keep going up. A shooter cowardly sat in his safe hotel room and took aim on 22,000 people happily watching a country concert. 

I’m sure they were singing, dancing and having a spectacular time. None of the victims could have thought this may be my last moment on earth. 

Let me be clear. In my opinion everyone of  those attending, the working, the first responders and all of their friends and families are victims. They will live with this memory the rest of their life. They should have the fun times of the concert to remember not this horrible event which may not have been able to prevent. Does that really matter right now. It happened and the after effects are horrendous. 

My heart is hurting thinking about the unfulfilled dreams those killed never were able to make happen. Maybe the car broke down so their money had to go to fix it instead of taking the trip cross country/world with their family. Maybe they had a wife or girlfriend at home waiting to have a baby. What about the bachelor and bachlorette parties Vegas is know for. How will the future spouse cope? 

I know life is about the have to. Without it you can’t do the big things you want to do. That’s the responsible thing to do. Maybe you work  a little harder to get a little bit more. Not easy for most I know. Scrimp, save so you can’t fulfill that dream. Life is short is a common saying . How often do you think about your dream then tell yourself it’s impossible? What about the person(s) you were going to fulfill the dream with like Ellie and Carl? Maybe fulfilling dreams is a “have to” as well. 

I am so fortunate. I try to remember to tell my husband daily how much I appreciate his hard word, how much he loves me and our boys. He just got done working 18 days straight to pay for this Disneyland trip. We are driving down I-5 as I type. This trip is important. Memories for all of us are important. We, as a family did what we had to do so we can now do what we want to do. Sometimes it’s leaving the dishes undone to go for a bike ride. Movie and game night is important in our house. 

I want to fulfill my families dreams before the end of my life. Yes we are all going to die. It’s a fact of life. To quote a song by the great Greorge Strait “Life’s not the breaths you take, But the moments that take your breath away”. I want thousands of breath taking moments with my family. It’s up to me to find the things me. Do the things I have to do to have the time. 
This has been hard to type through my tears. It may have a lot of spelling and grammatical errors. I don’t care. I hope just one person reads this and makes some time. Find a way to fulfill your dreams. Big ones, small ones, ones that cost a lot, and especially those that are free that you can do everyday. 

Yes, life is short and full of the unexpected. Live it now. Find that thing that will take your breath away today. 

Make your own adventure, don’t just lfollow mine. XOXO